The key to healthy relationships? It starts at school

As we celebrate romance this Valentine’s Day, Tender is calling for all young people to have access to creative education to empower them with the skills to build healthy romantic relationships.

At a special event attended by Doctor Who star and Tender Ambassador Jodie Whittaker, Tender demonstrated how creative practice from theatre and the arts can support young people to learn about healthy relationships and prevent violence and abuse. 

Hosted by Mulberry Academy Woodside, the workshop offered a taster of Tender’s secondary school programmes, currently in action throughout the UK. With Jodie’s help, Tender’s expert facilitators guided Year 9 students through a series of activities to unlock their creativity while embedding positive attitudes and behaviours.

Young people at risk of abuse

Young people aged 16 – 24 are at highest risk of experiencing abuse from a romantic partner (ONS, 2022). Although Relationships, Sex and Health Education (RSHE) is now compulsory in all UK schools, research suggests young people aren’t yet equipped with the understanding to recognise abuse and/or seek support.*

Harnessing the power of drama and the arts, Tender workshops create a safe, inclusive space for exploration and rehearsal. Young people learn about empathy and consent through a wide range of activities incorporating theatre, film and art. Highly trained facilitators support young people to understand different forms of abuse in friendships and romantic relationships, and how to seek help for themselves and their peers. 

Jodie Whittaker, Tender Ambassador, says: ‘I was thrilled to attend Tender’s workshop today and see firsthand the positive impact they have on young people.

‘Relationships can be wonderful – but they can also leave us vulnerable to abuse – emotional, physical, financial/economic. Tender’s approach gives young people a creative, safe and supportive place to explore these issues and learn what healthy, happy relationships really look like. 

‘Tender prevents abuse before it starts, helping us build a healthy, loving future.’

Susie McDonald, CEO of Tender, says: ‘Far too many young people are growing up unable to recognise abuse – in their own behaviour as well as their partners’.   

‘Tender’s arts-based approach engages students in new and innovative ways.  Developed with young people from all backgrounds, our workshops empower them to go into the world with the skills and understanding to have joyous romantic relationships – and happy Valentine’s Days for many years to come.’